Monday, 8 May 2017

A free stress reduction visualisation

Elsewhere on this blog you'll find some ideas about how you can help yourself if your stress levels are high.  Using you imagination is another way of doing this because what you imagine begins to feel real. This is the same as reading a book, or watching a film - you feel sad, happy, scared or joyous according to what's going on in the story even though your rational mind tells you 'It's not real'. So, if you imagine peaceful and calm thoughts and feelings, they feel real as well.

Monday, 10 April 2017

The Five F's of Stress

Many people refer to the stress response as 'fight or flight', but did you know that there are more options than just these two?

Fight or flight were the two basic options required by our ancestors when faced with a hungry tiger or another immediate threat. You can’t deal with this kind of situation by rationalising, planning or making decisions, you just have to react.

Monday, 13 March 2017

Why are we affected by stress?

Most of the stresses faced by our primitive ancestors were short sharp shocks: the sort of danger that threatens if a predator attacks. To survive, our ancestors either had to be able to run faster than the predators, or fight better.

Monday, 13 February 2017

Prove the power of your mind - with a lemon

Most people have a good idea about what’s involved with coaching or counselling, which I use to help a large number of stressed people. But they are intrigued - or occasionally alarmed - when they find out that I also offer hypnotherapy. (Bear with me, we'll get to that lemon!) Visions of clucking chickens and dancing Elvises must pass through a few minds, but actually hypnosis can be a really useful tool to use in your stress management sessions.